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EP. 8 | Dating: Love Languages + Are Men Selfish Lovers?

January 10, 2020

Mike John and Josh talk about the validity of Love Languages – a concept written about by Gary Chapman in the book The Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate. Josh and John don’t really see the validity of these “Love Languages” beyond the pop culture indoctrination of following what is popular. Josh thinks each Love Language should be involved throughout the relationship instead of having one or two since people are multi-dimensional. Mike doesn’t want to have to read your mind and play the guessing game when it comes to Love Languages. Ladies – articulate your desires like adults! Mike’s Love Languages are Words of Affirmation and Quality Time. Josh sees how girls are the ones to initiate the topic of Love Languages with their spouse in a way that can finesse their man into creating the relationship they want regardless of what the man wants. What are you Love Languages? Young MA set the internet ablaze when she stated men are selfish lovers. Do you agree with Young MA? Josh agrees completely and says it’s better for men who know what they’re doing in bed as generous lovers. John confesses to being selfish at times, especially if he is tired from working. Mike and Josh talk about how important it is to talk about sex early in the courtship before you have sex. John believes women who have hubris when talking about their sexual talents are usually a huge let down. Mike makes a valid point that most guys are boosting their ego with a lack luster performance. Similar to how women do for men. Mike also points out with current female rappers that their lyrics encourage the younger generation of women to be selfish lovers. Have you noticed the same trend? DM us on Instagram to have your comments read out loud on the show.

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